Someone asked me recently about my experience as Roanoke's "most eligible". I responded that "being most eligible was as much a gift for myself as for the larger community". I realized that taking this step was an opportunity to face my own fear of being out in the community. Though I've never hidden my orientation, I've not announced it loudly, until now.

Oddly, I received only two inquiries through InsideOut. I have had many friends thank me for taking this step and a few straight women wish I'd reconsider my orientation. The best and most surprising news is that after some searching, I'm dating someone I've known and loved for four years. Our level of intimacy is established and growing. Our deep respect for each other is a blessing.

I'm grateful for this moment in life-for the peace and goodness in my soul.